Our marriage is falling apart. It seems like we don't know each other anymore. We are too busy doing the chores of keeping up with the busy life. Lisa, Wisconsin.

Dear Lisa, Concentrate on what is really important to you. Bring the romance back to your life. Make arrangements to be alone with your husband, at least go to dinner once a week. Call him at work and talk romantic and sexy, like the times when you were dating. Bringing back the romance is in your hands.