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I feel like parts of me have been taken away from me. First marriage, then children, and lots more to do around the house. I feel like I don't have enough time to do anything. I feel having children put you at least five years behind schedule on your career. Sam, Illinois.
Dear Sam, The answer lies in having a good balance schedule. This way you won't feel trapped by your life style and family. See what is really important to you and set priorities. Don't be perfectionist at all times. Leave some things aside while enjoying life with your husband, kids, and your own time. Then Keep this formula in mind:- think balance - think 100% 
What 100% means? It means when you are with your husband give 100% attention. When you are with your kids, give 100% of your attention. When it is time for you, give 100% attention to you. Mixing things together won't get anywhere and you'll always feel staying behind the schedule. And by having a balance schedule that everyone in the family is aware of, you will have enough time to get to everything.

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